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Soul Retrieval
Soul Retrieval
This ceremony is conducted by most indigenous cultures
whenever illness or trauma (physical, emotional,
spiritual) occurs to retrieve lost or stolen pieces of
the soul. Some signs of soul loss are: Feeling like part
of you is missing, feeling lost, enduring sadness and
/or anger, feeling disconnected, a feeling of inadequacy
to meet the task at hand or the loss of skills (“know
how”) that you once had.
I have so much gratitude for this beautiful ceremony,
the elders who shared it with me, and the healing it
brings. In cultures where this ceremony is readily
available, people do not have to wait long periods of
time missing parts of themselves. As a result they are
spared having to develop complicated coping strategies
and negative limiting thoughts about themselves, which
have to be unlearned or reworked in some fashion later.
Our current psychological correlation to this is called
dissociation.
Developing a dissociative disorder or coping styles that
are adaptive at the onset but become burdensome over
time are possible results of extreme trauma. This
western focuses on part of the picture, but it falls
short because it largely views this fragmentation as a
metaphor or symbol. The traditional cultures teach us
that these ruptures are real, that actual pieces of soul
depart and survive in other realms. But what is trauma?
And what type of trauma can generate such results?
Our culture, for example, has very specific ideas of
what constitutes trauma as we have evolved out of a
variety of shame based religious and social structures
that promote self-denial in the name of socialization or
‘domestication’ (shamanic terminology). As parents
we begin shaping our children’s behavior at a very early
age to meet cultural norms. While this is necessary to a
large degree to promote ‘success’ within the prescribed
culture it can also have unintended ‘traumatic’ effects
to our inquisitive young as they explore their
environment. While this may not be traumatic in the same
way as a car accident, death of a parent, or life
threatening illness is, it often means that we give up
very important parts of ourselves in an attempt to
please a parent, teacher, clergy or other loved one and
never know what happened. Some people who come for soul
retrievals do not have any memories of extremely
difficult life experiences but still express some of the
above ‘symptoms’. They are often surprised to find that
pieces left early in their life around the time when
lots of personality shaping was taking place in their
families of origin.
An example in my life is a comment that was made to me
by a family member, “We are not singers, you cannot
sing, no one in our family can sing, you should not
waste your time taking chorus.” Through soul retrieval,
I have retrieved the part of me that ran for shelter and
did not feel safe to self-express vocally for many
years. I am regaining the lost ground and confidence to
sing publicly that this supposedly ‘harmless’ lie caused
me to lose. There are countless examples like this one
where well meaning people say or do things that result
in someone giving away parts of themselves or those
parts being, in essence, taken or stolen ‘to protect
someone from themselves’.
I once returned a soul piece to a grown woman whose
grandmother had stolen her joyfulness and spunk with a
judgment that severed the child from herself. The child
was too ‘spunky’ for the grandmother’s liking and she
feared she would be taken advantage of by others so
condemned her as unacceptable. An intention to ‘protect’
the child wound up having the sad consequence of
dispiriting her. When this occurs a soul fragment may
hide in the spirit world where it generally remains
intact until such a time when it is favorable for it to
return (i.e. it will not be subject to the same type of
conditions under which it fled and it requests assurance
of this in the form of agreements).
You can imagine then how easily it is to lose a part of
oneself to the events in our lives that we more commonly
refer to as traumatic. Most of us have some of these
types of traumas as well. It is not necessary for the
person conducting the soul retrieval to know one’s life
history to go into the spirit world to check for any
missing parts and we only go check once in the ceremony
with the explicit permission of the person requesting
the ceremony. I have performed soul retrievals on people
who have been therapy clients and for whom I know more
personal history and for people for whom I know none. I
have not observed a noticeable difference in the outcome
based on my prior familiarity with the person’s story.
So
what does this ceremony entail? It requires for one
person to make a request (parents of young children
under about 7 or in coma states can request for them).
There is one person who goes to look in the spirit world
as trained by our elders and another person to drum. The
drum is the vehicle, the canoe into the spirit world.
The recipient of the ceremony does “as much nothing as
possible” (Robin Lynne) while we go look. If pieces are
found they are brought back and blown into the body and
then the person has an opportunity to make the
agreements necessary for them to stay.
As an integral part of this ceremony we always ask
permission to remove any attachments or energy cords
(see cutting ceremony) that may be between the recipient
and other beings that are siphoning off his/her energy
in negative ways. It is best to take care of this prior
to bringing any soul fragments back into their body just
as you would prepare the soil before planting a tender
young seedling to increase its ability to take root.
When the ceremony is over the person is whole and
complete again and needs to keep their word and
reacquaint themselves with the pieces that returned. It
is helpful to do some follow up work with the person who
conducted the ceremony, a collaborating therapist, or to
attend a support circle with others who are also
remembering how to keep their word to themselves. This
is how we maintain the internal landscape that the
pieces returned to.
Most of my clients who have experienced a Soul Retrieval
make huge strides in their ability to take control of
their lives. They gain a better understanding of how to
take positive action in their lives rather than feel
subject to their lives. The return of the missing pieces
helps to mobilize the energy they need to follow
through. They learn the value of keeping one’s word,
especially to one’s self, and that improves all of their
other relationships as well. I have witnessed many
people use this return to wholeness as an opportunity to
begin or complete healing, relationship, education and
career goals with a new determination and sense of
empowerment because there is more of them available to
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Soul
Retrieval Support Circle
This circle is a place to work with the pieces of soul
that have returned, to continue to communicate with
them, to listen to them, and to learn how to keep your
word to them. It is about being impeccable with our word
and honoring the relationships and agreements in our
lives. You will be in the company of others who are
welcoming back pieces of themselves and making room
inside for this reunion to take hold.
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May the
long time sun
Shine upon you
All love surround you
And the pure light within you
Guide your way on.
- Traditional
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"The first patient
that I saw before a Cherokee Indian Soul Retrieval
Ceremony was very depressed and not functioning. When I
talked with her a day after the ceremony there was a
significant difference: She was much less depressed and
could function better. She could tell me the parts of
herself split off and what she needed to do to have them
remain with her. In an hour she had discovered what can
take years to determine in traditional talk therapy. Her
therapy then focused on how she would do the things that
she had agreed to do. It took about 6 months for her to
complete therapy and be off medication.
I find that patients who participate in a
ceremony early in treatment proceed to heal in about 6
-12 months. Those who have been in therapy for a long
time and then participate in a ceremony find that they
need very little therapy after that, perhaps a month. My
patients found this Soul Retrieval ceremony created deep
and lasting changes in
themselves that they did not get from other methods."
Natalie Sadler, MD
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